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Hi 😽. I'm Mx Smith, but you can call me Mixie — switchy minxy Mxtress Mixie Smith. These are my kinky links, at mixie.uk and mx-smith.uk
I'm vers, poly, pan, nb, did I mention switchy? I check Fabswingers.com fetlife.com and fetish.com a few times a week. Â Links open in new tabs.
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Kink/ BDSM questionnaire results:
Be More Kinky (I like this questionnaire the most, very in-depth, asked questions I thought relevant to my style that other sites do not ask).
BDSMtest.org (A good summary of me).
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Venues
Sauna Sauna, Northwich CW8 4GX
Sauna Sauna (yes, that is its name) hosts a monthly bisexual (pansexual) 14 hour party, first Friday of each month, and in months with 5 Saturdays, the bonus one is on the fourth Saturday. It's a sprawling, two-floor, two-wing building with less than a quarter of its floor space given to the actual sauna, the rest is licensed bar, changing rooms, many private rooms, an orgy room, glory hole alley, mini maze, darkrooms, open kink rooms... This is their website and this is their Gay Sauna Guide info page. (They don't use fabswingers.com anymore.) It's my favourite party, not to say that I've had a wonderful time each visit. I go at least 6 times a year to the bi events. Besides that, they do a few straight events every month under the name Club Alchemy, a weekly trans and admirers night, rest of the time predominantly gay catering. There's plenty of trans people at the bi nights and I prefer the blend of genders present then — I've been to a few gay nights, a couple of trans nights. I've recently got an appreciation for the steam room and when I'm expressing genderfuckery (most of the time), I have a few outfits for that room apart from the rest of the club. Makeup goes on after steam room fun, if makeup goes on at all.
Nero's/ Partners, Bury BL8 1SW
Dual personality venue, Nero's is its gay name, Partners is its straight name and it switches back n forth through the week. Biphoria is the weekly bi event all afternoon and evening on Thursdays — I've been twice, had more fun the second time. Also had fun on a gay Sunday afternoon.  Kage is the monthly kinkfest — pansexual and quite busy, quite a young crowd, I've been a few times. As I'm becoming kinkier, I'm finding that it is more like my scene than it used to be.
Steam Complex/ Pandora, Leeds LS12 2ND
They're relocating. I think I heard the owner mention that the roof was falling apart. But, Leeds is a lot easier for me to get to by train than driving — factor in cycling to and from train stations, the journey should take 1hr30ish. Had fun in the old location, looking forward to news about its next location.
Townhouse, Birkenhead CH42 3TL
Club with frequent themed nights. I've been twice – first time I felt a little out of water — but you do these things to broaden your horizons, yeah? It was their Queerspace event back in March 2025, second time was mid October 2026 where I saw a friend from Northwich, made a new friend socially (who I might hook up with later) and had a lovely hour or so with a trans woman, over two separate sessions.
RIOT Party, no fixed venue, MCR (and other cities)
They hold social events in various venues and evening raves with areas for intimacy, roughly monthly. They celebrate all genders and orientations, s-workers and queer POC. I go for the people, the vibes they emanate and the opportunity to express through dress.