Hi 😽 I'm Mxtress Smith and these are my kinky links. I check FL, Fab and JOYclub a few times a week. Links open in new tabs.
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Steam Complex/ Pandora, Leeds
Top of the list because it is my next planned visit Thurs 4th Sept, not 'cause I live anywhere near. This venue is a lot easier for me to get to my train, factor in cycling to and from train stations, the journey should take 1hr30ish. You can tell from the biphoria page, this Leeds event is promoted in the same way as the Nero's/ Partners in Bury (see below) and they run on the same timetable: every Thursday, early afternoon until late night. Small sauna. Large pool. BYOB, bar serving free tea, coffee and water, soft drinks, snacks for sale. Fairly large collection of rooms for fun across 2 more floors. My first visit (since maybe 2017) was on 29th May and a good time was had 😍 🍆➕🏳️⚧️🍆💦🫢😛!
Sauna Sauna, Northwich
Probably miss this event in September since the day before I'll be out in Leeds. Sauna Sauna (yes, that is its name) hosts a monthly bisexual (pansexual) 14 hour party, first Friday of each month. It's a sprawling, two-floor, two-wing building with less than a quarter of its floorspace given to the actual sauna, the rest is bar, changing rooms, many private rooms, an orgy room, glory hole alley, mini maze, darkrooms, open kink rooms... This is their website and this is the fabswingers.com forum post for the next party — if I'm going, I'm in the replies a few days before the event. I'll update this link when it changes each month, soon after each party and you need an account with fabswingers.com to view. It is my favourite party, not to say that I've had a wonderful time each visit. I go at least 6 times a year. Most days the venue host gay events, but also has regular straight swinger nights and weekly trans nights. There's plenty of trans people at the bi nights and I prefer the blend of genders present then — I've been to a few gay nights, one trans night, their biggest of the year, held annually in November. I've recently got an appreciation for the steam room, though I don't think I'd go in with my makeup on.
Townhouse, Birkenhead
Club with frequent themed nights. I've been once, had a fair good time but because it was my first, I felt a little out of water -- but you do these things to broaden your horizons, yeah? I went to their Queerspace event in March, it was cool. I'll be keeping an eye out for it but their last one was on a Thursday, the one evening of the week I prefer to stay home. I wasn't a fan of the no-phone policy. Everywhere else I've been, the policy has been, yes you can use phones in the bar area, we trust you not to take photos. Or, in the case of RIOT Party, they cover your phone lens on entry and because everybody is dressed to impress, provide free professional photographers for you to pose for if you want, and have said snaps shared amongst attendees, if you're brave enough, and yes I am.
Nero's/ Partners, Bury
Dual personality venue, Nero's is its gay name, Partners is its straight name. Biphoria is the weekly bi event all afternoon and evening on Thursdays and Kage is the monthly kinkfest, fairly pansexually leaning and quite busy, not entirely my scene though.
RIOT Party, no fixed venue, MCR (and other cities)
They hold social events in various venues and evening raves with areas for intimacy, roughly monthly. In Summer the raves are at Rebellion night club (basement of Deansgate Railway Station) and in Winter '24-25, was held at Area night club on the outskirts of the village. Celebrates all genders and orientations, s-workers and queer POC. I go for the people, the vibes they emanate and the opportunity to express through dress.