About me
Hi 😽. I'm Mx Smith, but you can call me Mixie — switchy minxy Mxtress Mixie Smith. These are my kinky links, at mixie.uk and mx-smith.uk
I'm vers, poly, pan, nb, did I mention switchy? I check Fabswingers.com fetlife.com and fetish.com a few times a week. Â Links open in new tabs.
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Venues
Sauna Sauna, Northwich CW8 4GX
Sauna Sauna (yes, that is its name) hosts a monthly bisexual (pansexual) 14 hour party, first Friday of each month, and in months with 5 Saturdays, the bonus one is on the fourth Saturday. It's a sprawling, two-floor, two-wing building with less than a quarter of its floor space given to the actual sauna, the rest is licensed bar, changing rooms, many private rooms, an orgy room, glory hole alley, mini maze, darkrooms, open kink rooms... This is their website and this is their Gay Sauna Guide info page. (They don't use fabswingers.com anymore.) It's my favourite party, not to say that I've had a wonderful time each visit. I go at least 6 times a year to the bi events. Besides that, they do a few straight events every month under the name Club Alchemy, a weekly trans and admirers night, rest of the time predominantly gay catering. There's plenty of trans people at the bi nights and I prefer the blend of genders present then — I've been to a few gay nights, a couple of trans nights. I've recently got an appreciation for the steam room and when I'm expressing genderfuckery (most of the time), I have a few outfits for that room apart from the rest of the club. Makeup goes on after steam room fun, if makeup goes on at all.
Nero's/ Partners, Bury BL8 1SW
Dual personality venue, Nero's is its gay name, Partners is its straight name and it switches back n forth through the week. Biphoria is the weekly bi event all afternoon and evening on Thursdays — I've been twice, had more fun the second time. Also had fun on a gay Sunday afternoon.  Kage is the monthly kinkfest — pansexual and quite busy, quite a young crowd, I've been twice and it's not entirely my scene.
Steam Complex/ Pandora, Leeds LS12 2ND
This venue is a lot easier for me to get to by train than driving — factor in cycling to and from train stations, the journey should take 1hr30ish. You can tell from the biphoria page, this Leeds event is promoted in the same way as the Nero's/ Partners in Bury and they run on the same timetable: every Thursday, early afternoon until late night. Small sauna. Large pool. BYOB, bar serving free tea, coffee and water, soft drinks, snacks for sale. Fairly large collection of rooms for fun across 2 more floors. I tend to go here (or Nero's in Bury) on Thursdays for Biphoria when I'm off work.
Townhouse, Birkenhead CH42 3TL
Club with frequent themed nights. I've been once, had a fair good time but because it was my first, I felt a little out of water — but you do these things to broaden your horizons, yeah? It was their Queerspace event back in March 2025.
RIOT Party, no fixed venue, MCR (and other cities)
They hold social events in various venues and evening raves with areas for intimacy, roughly monthly. They celebrate all genders and orientations, s-workers and queer POC. I go for the people, the vibes they emanate and the opportunity to express through dress.
My photos and more details about me are on my fetife, fabswingers and fetish.com profiles, see the links on my welcome page. Each site has the same photos as the other, more or less.
I like: Watching and being watched — spontaneous couplings and group sex — being vers and switchy — giving fantastic rimjobs — big cocks, big dildos — giving throat — being flogged, paddled, spanked, cropped, sandal-slapped, and caned and hit me with my rhythm stick! — after the spanks, gentle scratching, stroking and pinwheeling over the sores — being complimented on how pretty the welts and bruises on my ass look — being praised for my capacity for taking a thrashing — being blindfolded during a thrashing — dressing in clothes considered femme and slutty.
(A non-binary person with a penis, such as myself, wearing clothes considered femme is not, in my opinion, cross-dressing — it's an expression of actual gender).
I generally prefer the type of impact where the sensation is felt on the skin surface. If the marks that are left are red or welts, that's better than deeper impact sensations that leave bruises.
I want to try: more exotic implements, like electrical stimulation. A bigger paddle.
Last time my head went 🤯: I was bent over a kink bench and receiving a general spanking with various implements. A long, fairly thin paddle was placed between my thighs and flapped back and forth, slapping the inside of both thighs. Such a sensitive area, I screamed the loudest I have ever, feeling with each slap my threshold getting pushed further and further, while never going amber on the "green, amber, red" scale.  When the mistress stopped paddling my inner thighs, my screams turned to giggles and my head was filled with pale pink fluffly clouds for a moment. That sensation was repeated a couple more times during play and each time it got better, I wanted more of them moments, harder and for longer! Nice when my bellend got caught by the paddle too 🫦
I don't like: Poop. Puke. Pee. Needle-play. Medical play.  Anything that could cause me discomfort to the contents of my nutsack due to past medical trauma. Marks anywhere not usually covered by clothes. No degradation roleplay (so no choking, no face slapping) and I'm really indifferent to most roleplay around BDSM.  I'm not going to pretend that I don't enjoy something when I'm enjoying it. Oh no, this Carolina Reaper on my pizza has too much capsaicin and is burning my mouth, please make it stop (like that would ever happen!)
My dom style is: I know how good it feels to receive paddles, spanks, flogs and crops and I enjoy returning the favour to those that enjoy it too.Â
When not fucking, I'm kinda like: I take one home-grown, gnarly, knobbly Carolina Reaper chilli, chopped up small, per pizza, per week, plus homemade reaper chilli sauce with most meals: this gets me through life, as do other little crutches, like most people. I'm way left of centre but not extreme, and very distrustful of authority, though I'm pretty chill around apolitical and vaguely Tory folk if you're chill around me, we might not be best friends but whatever.
Follower of Farage? You're a fascist. Fuck off. Now.
I can play guitar but rarely pick it up this last decade — I've used that practice time to get good on drums instead. I've forgotten almost everything I learnt on piano. I dazzle on the rusty trombone! I work in IT, doing Windows systems for money and Linux systems for shits and giggles. I'm married (3 years) to an asexual man, we've been together and in love for 15 years. Everything I do, I do with his fully informed consent and encouragement. If he hadn't become asexual, probably due to antidepressant meds, we might have experimented together and this would have been our swinging site, not mine.
It used to be that I had a page here with a form on it, and you could fill in a message and your email address, and the page would send me an email, from my address, to my address.  Then I got lots of spam. Messages telling me that they could increase my site's commercial traffic, get more hits, get more sales.
I'm not looking for sales, thank you — I'm looking for dick.
So, instead of the form, I'm inviting you to send a normal email from your choice of app.  I'm not going to publish it directly here — I suspect that web bots would still crawl the site looking for stuff that is an obvious email address. However, if you sent to mixie at the same domain as this site, I'd receive.
That way, if you're the kind of internet user that doesn't have any accounts on social media (kinky or vanilla) but you have an email address, you can still message me.
And here is a fake email address for the web-bots to waste their CPU runtime on: